"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Funny-Playful or Mysterious-Badass?
- Thread starter Spade
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
You have have your own style that matches you. For ex., I am a crazy, fun dude around people and like to mess around, tease and get bored real quick.
Whats your personality like? Use that to amplify the result.
There is no answer for this question. There are just too many variables. You also have to consider looks, confidence, social status etc.Spade said:which ones better?
If they were both running game on the same girl, which will the girl be most attracted too? and which will she sleep and open up first?
If what you're trying to get at is what game works better with women (funny-playful or mysterious-badass) you are going about it the wrong way. It's not about trying to be one dimensional and just 1 type of game but incorporating different strategies for your game for different situations. There really isn't 1 type of game that works best with women because of so many variables involved.
You can be funny-playful with women on certain occasions (for example when you got them in your apartment and are trying to kino them) and still be a mysterious-badass guy (by not having a facebook, giving away too much about yourself unless she earns it etc)
It's about incorporating all these traits and making yourself a more attractive guy and less plain. Being funny and playful when the ocasion calls for it but also showing you have an "edge" and showing your badass self on other ocasions if they call for it.
What we do know for sure is women hate nice guys, boring guys, dull guys, plain guys.
Deadly_Ripped
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If you're not a badass, then pretending to be a badass won't get you very far with women. A sense of humor and an aloof nature, however, is easier for someone to develop. Similarly, if you are kind of a badass or dark, then you probably wouldn't want to act cheery and playful.
This question is really all about how you feel inside and how you want to act around others. Women will flock either way once you've mastered great conversation skills and have fully integrated whatever persona you desire into your social life.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Spade said:i always wondered how do badasses build comfort? do they just go to sduction without playfulness and kino?
they open up in private and the girls feel good aobut getting getting to know the "real badass".