franchise21
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simple question.... the pros and cons of being fuddies.... really considering just being fuddies with this one chick....
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
fuddies (f*** buddies)
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
franchise21
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well ok the reason i ask....im a high school student and i will be leaving for a foreign exchange at the end of july...so i really do not want to get into a serious relationship...
L777
Master Don Juan
TheEdgeOf said:
I don't think you get to comment on moral values at 17. Do you have experience in this field from which to draw from?The pros are: sex. No need to go on dates etc. No commitmant, no responsibilities.
The cons are; One of you may get too attached. I don't get attached easily at all. and invariably the girl like me more than I like her, so I often have to gently remind her that I'm seeing other women and can't be their b/f. They're usually a little upset but accepting. Just be nice to them, be friends with them, and be good in bed, and you'll be fine.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
No.TheEdgeOf said:
Fuddies? I think I'll steal that.
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
A con I would add is the STD factor. Be careful! If a woman is that liberal in her actions, it's possible that you're one of maybe many. It's disturbing but i would suggest to wear protection and to not get any emotions (like that feeling of how you too have so much fun together even when not having sex and can have great conversations). Good luck and enjoy, f*ck buddies are sometimes great but don't let them distract you from the rest of your life.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
franchise21
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thanks for the advice it gives me a littel bit to think about
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.