franchise21
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simple question.... the pros and cons of being fuddies.... really considering just being fuddies with this one chick....
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
fuddies (f*** buddies)
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
franchise21
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well ok the reason i ask....im a high school student and i will be leaving for a foreign exchange at the end of july...so i really do not want to get into a serious relationship...
L777
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TheEdgeOf said:
I don't think you get to comment on moral values at 17. Do you have experience in this field from which to draw from?The pros are: sex. No need to go on dates etc. No commitmant, no responsibilities.
The cons are; One of you may get too attached. I don't get attached easily at all. and invariably the girl like me more than I like her, so I often have to gently remind her that I'm seeing other women and can't be their b/f. They're usually a little upset but accepting. Just be nice to them, be friends with them, and be good in bed, and you'll be fine.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
No.TheEdgeOf said:
Fuddies? I think I'll steal that.
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
A con I would add is the STD factor. Be careful! If a woman is that liberal in her actions, it's possible that you're one of maybe many. It's disturbing but i would suggest to wear protection and to not get any emotions (like that feeling of how you too have so much fun together even when not having sex and can have great conversations). Good luck and enjoy, f*ck buddies are sometimes great but don't let them distract you from the rest of your life.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
franchise21
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thanks for the advice it gives me a littel bit to think about
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.