franchise21
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simple question.... the pros and cons of being fuddies.... really considering just being fuddies with this one chick....
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
fuddies (f*** buddies)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
franchise21
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well ok the reason i ask....im a high school student and i will be leaving for a foreign exchange at the end of july...so i really do not want to get into a serious relationship...
L777
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TheEdgeOf said:
I don't think you get to comment on moral values at 17. Do you have experience in this field from which to draw from?The pros are: sex. No need to go on dates etc. No commitmant, no responsibilities.
The cons are; One of you may get too attached. I don't get attached easily at all. and invariably the girl like me more than I like her, so I often have to gently remind her that I'm seeing other women and can't be their b/f. They're usually a little upset but accepting. Just be nice to them, be friends with them, and be good in bed, and you'll be fine.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
No.TheEdgeOf said:
Fuddies? I think I'll steal that.
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
A con I would add is the STD factor. Be careful! If a woman is that liberal in her actions, it's possible that you're one of maybe many. It's disturbing but i would suggest to wear protection and to not get any emotions (like that feeling of how you too have so much fun together even when not having sex and can have great conversations). Good luck and enjoy, f*ck buddies are sometimes great but don't let them distract you from the rest of your life.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
franchise21
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thanks for the advice it gives me a littel bit to think about
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.