franchise21
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simple question.... the pros and cons of being fuddies.... really considering just being fuddies with this one chick....
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
fuddies (f*** buddies)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
franchise21
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well ok the reason i ask....im a high school student and i will be leaving for a foreign exchange at the end of july...so i really do not want to get into a serious relationship...
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TheEdgeOf said:
I don't think you get to comment on moral values at 17. Do you have experience in this field from which to draw from?The pros are: sex. No need to go on dates etc. No commitmant, no responsibilities.
The cons are; One of you may get too attached. I don't get attached easily at all. and invariably the girl like me more than I like her, so I often have to gently remind her that I'm seeing other women and can't be their b/f. They're usually a little upset but accepting. Just be nice to them, be friends with them, and be good in bed, and you'll be fine.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
No.TheEdgeOf said:
Fuddies? I think I'll steal that.
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
Pros = Sex (of course), You may look less desperate to other women because you know you can get sex whenever, if you're bored one night and just wanna chill at the house and watch movies and have sex then it's always available.
Cons = She may get too attached and start expecting things from you that you aren't willing to do. Other than that, I absolutely love the fvck buddy relationship. Just make sure you treat her with respect and like you would any other friend (other than the sex of course.)
A con I would add is the STD factor. Be careful! If a woman is that liberal in her actions, it's possible that you're one of maybe many. It's disturbing but i would suggest to wear protection and to not get any emotions (like that feeling of how you too have so much fun together even when not having sex and can have great conversations). Good luck and enjoy, f*ck buddies are sometimes great but don't let them distract you from the rest of your life.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
Wow Bussey, you're a real life tool, here on display for everyone to see if they've ever wondered what one sounds like.
franchise21
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thanks for the advice it gives me a littel bit to think about
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.