“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Frustrated...please help

texmex23

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I've tried everything, not masturbating, masturbating like a million times a day and i always get hard-ons at times when i dont want them. Like i'll be watchin movies with a girl and were all huddled together and bam, a boner and its like wtf.So then i have to move into a diff. position until it goes down. She hasn't done anything except like be inbetween my legs and watched the movie. And my friends are always like man she was rubbin on my piece or like she was rubbin me by there and they didnt pop boners and its like why cant i have that self-control with it? Is there somethin else that can be done or is it something that will stop with time, cause its like whatever little arousal there is a hard-on comes on.
 

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happens to me with a new girl, once the new car smell wears off it's not so easy for me any more.

next time a chick is coming over, take an aspirin beforehand. that may help you out a little bit.
just give it a shot.
 

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oh, and i totally forgot to mention!
i used to get raging morning wood so bad that it would last like 2-3 hours. i used to pace around my house in the morning waiting for it to go down so i could take a piss, but it rarely did. i'd just drive to work early and hit up the urinal. i'd walk back to my office holding a newspaper around waist level and then i wouldn't leave my office for the next hour.

it sucked!
i worked in a callcenter, damn it if one of the observant milfs didn't notice. i was 19 at the time, she was 41. she said something to me about it and then ASKED ME OUT! lmao. i asked her "how old do you think I am?" her: "i've thought about it for a while, and i think you're 30." me: "I'm 19." her: "stop lying"

i had to show her my ID to prove it to her. i think i broke her heart
 

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You're just easily aroused, the more action you get, the less likely you are to just spring wood.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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