I've tried everything, not masturbating, masturbating like a million times a day and i always get hard-ons at times when i dont want them. Like i'll be watchin movies with a girl and were all huddled together and bam, a boner and its like wtf.So then i have to move into a diff. position until it goes down. She hasn't done anything except like be inbetween my legs and watched the movie. And my friends are always like man she was rubbin on my piece or like she was rubbin me by there and they didnt pop boners and its like why cant i have that self-control with it? Is there somethin else that can be done or is it something that will stop with time, cause its like whatever little arousal there is a hard-on comes on.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Frustrated...please help
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