I've tried everything, not masturbating, masturbating like a million times a day and i always get hard-ons at times when i dont want them. Like i'll be watchin movies with a girl and were all huddled together and bam, a boner and its like wtf.So then i have to move into a diff. position until it goes down. She hasn't done anything except like be inbetween my legs and watched the movie. And my friends are always like man she was rubbin on my piece or like she was rubbin me by there and they didnt pop boners and its like why cant i have that self-control with it? Is there somethin else that can be done or is it something that will stop with time, cause its like whatever little arousal there is a hard-on comes on.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Frustrated...please help
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