"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Frustrated...please help

texmex23

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I've tried everything, not masturbating, masturbating like a million times a day and i always get hard-ons at times when i dont want them. Like i'll be watchin movies with a girl and were all huddled together and bam, a boner and its like wtf.So then i have to move into a diff. position until it goes down. She hasn't done anything except like be inbetween my legs and watched the movie. And my friends are always like man she was rubbin on my piece or like she was rubbin me by there and they didnt pop boners and its like why cant i have that self-control with it? Is there somethin else that can be done or is it something that will stop with time, cause its like whatever little arousal there is a hard-on comes on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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reyalp

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happens to me with a new girl, once the new car smell wears off it's not so easy for me any more.

next time a chick is coming over, take an aspirin beforehand. that may help you out a little bit.
just give it a shot.
 

reyalp

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oh, and i totally forgot to mention!
i used to get raging morning wood so bad that it would last like 2-3 hours. i used to pace around my house in the morning waiting for it to go down so i could take a piss, but it rarely did. i'd just drive to work early and hit up the urinal. i'd walk back to my office holding a newspaper around waist level and then i wouldn't leave my office for the next hour.

it sucked!
i worked in a callcenter, damn it if one of the observant milfs didn't notice. i was 19 at the time, she was 41. she said something to me about it and then ASKED ME OUT! lmao. i asked her "how old do you think I am?" her: "i've thought about it for a while, and i think you're 30." me: "I'm 19." her: "stop lying"

i had to show her my ID to prove it to her. i think i broke her heart
 

Skilla_Staz

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You're just easily aroused, the more action you get, the less likely you are to just spring wood.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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