"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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froze up in grocery store

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wiggadude

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I went to the grocery store, all set to get at least one number.

There was one girl I passed at least 5 times with my shopping cart. Each time I told myself, ok NOW I'm going to talk to her.

But each time I wussed out cuz I didn't know what to say.

How the FVCK can I fix this?? I was going to say something like "Hey, I keep running into you", but after that, I wouldn't know how to create a conversation.

AARGH!!!! Any advice fellow DJ's? :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey I keep running into you. Are you stalking me or something? (all done with a smile) If she smiles back you're in.
 
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wiggadude

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Haha, thanks that's pretty good.

Originally posted by Broham
Hey I keep running into you. Are you stalking me or something? (all done with a smile) If she smiles back you're in.
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Broham
Hey I keep running into you. Are you stalking me or something? (all done with a smile) If she smiles back you're in.
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So what would you say next? There are so many threads about guys that spend so much time coming up with the perfect opening line but they never prepare what to say next.

Guys, you need to work on you conversation skills and not memorizing just an opening line.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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