"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm new to the DJ board, and I'm halfway through camp. Progress is going well. I already have pretty good game with strangers, but I've already mad a lot of girl
friends. There's a few that show attraction and all that biz, but a lot of friends. My question to the more experienced ones:
How do you get a girl thats mostly just a friend to spark attraction with you again?

Most of my source of this is with one girl: I was once open about liking her, then said I didn't anymore (quite some time ago), back in my uber bad game afc days. We're still cool, and we used to hang out, but now it's just like a "hi." "hey noc" type thing (noc isn't my real name by the way). Either way, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her, and I'd like to make that mutual. Tips would be great DJ bro's.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"derivitive", you take calculus or advanced maths, since you used it incorrectly.

Derive, as to obtain from something.

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Onwards. You find that out, you PM me, I could use that info bad. :)
 
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yeah... thanks for the help bud, but really, will anyone help me?
 
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I wish I could, but I'm caught in the same spot...friends..with two totally awesome girls. -_-, damn my selection process.
 
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hey docs, in relation to that... I have tons of girls that are friends that are totally hot. But this one is one that I like a lot; she's physically attractive, and has a great personality. I don't want to screw the friendship, but I want to create attraction on her part. In other words, I have plenty of friends that are hot, 9-9.5's, but I want this one.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I hear you. The two that I like, they aren't 'hot', I find them attractive none the less though. (I don't use the word hot to specify beauty)

They have awesome personalities, they care a lot about themselves and everyone around them and plainly put, they are sweethearts. But I've been friend-branded big time..as much of an awesome guy they think I am...I'm just a friend, nothing considered more...."ever".

Life's stupid sometimes, lol.
 
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