"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm new to the DJ board, and I'm halfway through camp. Progress is going well. I already have pretty good game with strangers, but I've already mad a lot of girl
friends. There's a few that show attraction and all that biz, but a lot of friends. My question to the more experienced ones:
How do you get a girl thats mostly just a friend to spark attraction with you again?

Most of my source of this is with one girl: I was once open about liking her, then said I didn't anymore (quite some time ago), back in my uber bad game afc days. We're still cool, and we used to hang out, but now it's just like a "hi." "hey noc" type thing (noc isn't my real name by the way). Either way, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her, and I'd like to make that mutual. Tips would be great DJ bro's.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"derivitive", you take calculus or advanced maths, since you used it incorrectly.

Derive, as to obtain from something.

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Onwards. You find that out, you PM me, I could use that info bad. :)
 
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yeah... thanks for the help bud, but really, will anyone help me?
 
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I wish I could, but I'm caught in the same spot...friends..with two totally awesome girls. -_-, damn my selection process.
 
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hey docs, in relation to that... I have tons of girls that are friends that are totally hot. But this one is one that I like a lot; she's physically attractive, and has a great personality. I don't want to screw the friendship, but I want to create attraction on her part. In other words, I have plenty of friends that are hot, 9-9.5's, but I want this one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hear you. The two that I like, they aren't 'hot', I find them attractive none the less though. (I don't use the word hot to specify beauty)

They have awesome personalities, they care a lot about themselves and everyone around them and plainly put, they are sweethearts. But I've been friend-branded big time..as much of an awesome guy they think I am...I'm just a friend, nothing considered more...."ever".

Life's stupid sometimes, lol.
 
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