"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm new to the DJ board, and I'm halfway through camp. Progress is going well. I already have pretty good game with strangers, but I've already mad a lot of girl
friends. There's a few that show attraction and all that biz, but a lot of friends. My question to the more experienced ones:
How do you get a girl thats mostly just a friend to spark attraction with you again?

Most of my source of this is with one girl: I was once open about liking her, then said I didn't anymore (quite some time ago), back in my uber bad game afc days. We're still cool, and we used to hang out, but now it's just like a "hi." "hey noc" type thing (noc isn't my real name by the way). Either way, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her, and I'd like to make that mutual. Tips would be great DJ bro's.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"derivitive", you take calculus or advanced maths, since you used it incorrectly.

Derive, as to obtain from something.

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Onwards. You find that out, you PM me, I could use that info bad. :)
 

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yeah... thanks for the help bud, but really, will anyone help me?
 

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I wish I could, but I'm caught in the same spot...friends..with two totally awesome girls. -_-, damn my selection process.
 

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hey docs, in relation to that... I have tons of girls that are friends that are totally hot. But this one is one that I like a lot; she's physically attractive, and has a great personality. I don't want to screw the friendship, but I want to create attraction on her part. In other words, I have plenty of friends that are hot, 9-9.5's, but I want this one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I hear you. The two that I like, they aren't 'hot', I find them attractive none the less though. (I don't use the word hot to specify beauty)

They have awesome personalities, they care a lot about themselves and everyone around them and plainly put, they are sweethearts. But I've been friend-branded big time..as much of an awesome guy they think I am...I'm just a friend, nothing considered more...."ever".

Life's stupid sometimes, lol.
 
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