Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm new to the DJ board, and I'm halfway through camp. Progress is going well. I already have pretty good game with strangers, but I've already mad a lot of girl
friends. There's a few that show attraction and all that biz, but a lot of friends. My question to the more experienced ones:
How do you get a girl thats mostly just a friend to spark attraction with you again?

Most of my source of this is with one girl: I was once open about liking her, then said I didn't anymore (quite some time ago), back in my uber bad game afc days. We're still cool, and we used to hang out, but now it's just like a "hi." "hey noc" type thing (noc isn't my real name by the way). Either way, I've liked this girl since the moment I met her, and I'd like to make that mutual. Tips would be great DJ bro's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"derivitive", you take calculus or advanced maths, since you used it incorrectly.

Derive, as to obtain from something.

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Onwards. You find that out, you PM me, I could use that info bad. :)
 

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yeah... thanks for the help bud, but really, will anyone help me?
 

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I wish I could, but I'm caught in the same spot...friends..with two totally awesome girls. -_-, damn my selection process.
 

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hey docs, in relation to that... I have tons of girls that are friends that are totally hot. But this one is one that I like a lot; she's physically attractive, and has a great personality. I don't want to screw the friendship, but I want to create attraction on her part. In other words, I have plenty of friends that are hot, 9-9.5's, but I want this one.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I hear you. The two that I like, they aren't 'hot', I find them attractive none the less though. (I don't use the word hot to specify beauty)

They have awesome personalities, they care a lot about themselves and everyone around them and plainly put, they are sweethearts. But I've been friend-branded big time..as much of an awesome guy they think I am...I'm just a friend, nothing considered more...."ever".

Life's stupid sometimes, lol.
 
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