"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frigid girlfriend?

polaris_01

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ive been seeing this girl for couple months now but havent' done anything with her besides make-out wiff her alot. I only recently found out she was a virgin after a drunken talk with her in which she sed she wanted her first time be special...ect but later that nite she on went on bout how she didnt want to take things further n went really weird.

since then shes been apologizing a ton and telling me she is "interested". I just know if she is going to take things further, what do u think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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I dont know if she will. She told you she was interested because she was afraid you wouldnt like her or something because she didnt wanna take things further. Make her more comfortable and show her that you care. When you make you with her dont keep you hand in one place, let them roam around. Touch her legs, stomach, back, neck, and boobs. Kiss her neck and ear and all that jazz. If she wants you to stop, stop. I dont know what your question was cause i dont understand what the hell you asked but i hope that helped.
 

LikRetsam

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Don't bring it up - roll with the punches as stated above.
 

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If you have the most experience out of you two which it sounds like you do then you should be the progresser. If your alone and your making out just go that little bit further and take small steps so she doesn't freak out, then you can ease her into having a bang and what not.
 
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