"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Frigid girlfriend?

polaris_01

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ive been seeing this girl for couple months now but havent' done anything with her besides make-out wiff her alot. I only recently found out she was a virgin after a drunken talk with her in which she sed she wanted her first time be special...ect but later that nite she on went on bout how she didnt want to take things further n went really weird.

since then shes been apologizing a ton and telling me she is "interested". I just know if she is going to take things further, what do u think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oakraiderz2

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I dont know if she will. She told you she was interested because she was afraid you wouldnt like her or something because she didnt wanna take things further. Make her more comfortable and show her that you care. When you make you with her dont keep you hand in one place, let them roam around. Touch her legs, stomach, back, neck, and boobs. Kiss her neck and ear and all that jazz. If she wants you to stop, stop. I dont know what your question was cause i dont understand what the hell you asked but i hope that helped.
 

LikRetsam

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Don't bring it up - roll with the punches as stated above.
 

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If you have the most experience out of you two which it sounds like you do then you should be the progresser. If your alone and your making out just go that little bit further and take small steps so she doesn't freak out, then you can ease her into having a bang and what not.
 
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