"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Frigid girlfriend?

polaris_01

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ive been seeing this girl for couple months now but havent' done anything with her besides make-out wiff her alot. I only recently found out she was a virgin after a drunken talk with her in which she sed she wanted her first time be special...ect but later that nite she on went on bout how she didnt want to take things further n went really weird.

since then shes been apologizing a ton and telling me she is "interested". I just know if she is going to take things further, what do u think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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I dont know if she will. She told you she was interested because she was afraid you wouldnt like her or something because she didnt wanna take things further. Make her more comfortable and show her that you care. When you make you with her dont keep you hand in one place, let them roam around. Touch her legs, stomach, back, neck, and boobs. Kiss her neck and ear and all that jazz. If she wants you to stop, stop. I dont know what your question was cause i dont understand what the hell you asked but i hope that helped.
 

LikRetsam

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Don't bring it up - roll with the punches as stated above.
 

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If you have the most experience out of you two which it sounds like you do then you should be the progresser. If your alone and your making out just go that little bit further and take small steps so she doesn't freak out, then you can ease her into having a bang and what not.
 
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