"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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polaris_01

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ive been seeing this girl for couple months now but havent' done anything with her besides make-out wiff her alot. I only recently found out she was a virgin after a drunken talk with her in which she sed she wanted her first time be special...ect but later that nite she on went on bout how she didnt want to take things further n went really weird.

since then shes been apologizing a ton and telling me she is "interested". I just know if she is going to take things further, what do u think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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I dont know if she will. She told you she was interested because she was afraid you wouldnt like her or something because she didnt wanna take things further. Make her more comfortable and show her that you care. When you make you with her dont keep you hand in one place, let them roam around. Touch her legs, stomach, back, neck, and boobs. Kiss her neck and ear and all that jazz. If she wants you to stop, stop. I dont know what your question was cause i dont understand what the hell you asked but i hope that helped.
 
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LikRetsam

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Don't bring it up - roll with the punches as stated above.
 
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If you have the most experience out of you two which it sounds like you do then you should be the progresser. If your alone and your making out just go that little bit further and take small steps so she doesn't freak out, then you can ease her into having a bang and what not.
 
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