So being bitter out of my last relationship, I decided to be incredibly blunt with the last girl I went out with. She is a solid 9. After I gamed her enough online and got her into asking me out for coffee.....I told her straight up, "women don't become friends with me they want to **** me" and that I "like women that are a challenge"
Now this girl ended up friendzoning me but when I texted her tonight something didn't quite add up.
1. She already knew what I looked like before going out with me because she had met me in person weeks before the date. Not being physically attracted to me is out of the picture.
2. She is pretty well known around my area and likes to be very secretive. I even asked her why she works out with a hat really low in the gym and she said its so people in the gym don't talk to her and know who she is. When I told her that my friend said he knew a friend she works with, she said "Look I hope you don't tell people I talk to you or text you. Im very secretive" Now to me...this doesn't quite add up. You don't hide a friend unless your guilty about it.
3. After being friend zoned, I asked her out for "drinks and to have fun" and she said she was cool with it ....but "as friends" This again doesn't make sense to me. All my friends that have been friend zoned usually don't end up ever meeting up with the chick again and if they do it definitely isn't for drinks.
4. She is emotionally closed off. Told me she hadn't been on a date in 4 months and has "issues"..this made her MORE of a challenge for me.
Now Im not saying she is interested in me, but my spidy senses feel like this chick had at least some attraction to me. Obviously I kind of got what I asked for by telling her "women never want to be friends with me they only want to **** me" So thats exactly what I told her, Im playing it off and laughing about it like I don't care.
I gave you guys the facts so tell me what you think. Should I really bother asking her out on a second date? Or just try and see her around the gym, flirt a bit, and try and let her come to me?
Now this girl ended up friendzoning me but when I texted her tonight something didn't quite add up.
1. She already knew what I looked like before going out with me because she had met me in person weeks before the date. Not being physically attracted to me is out of the picture.
2. She is pretty well known around my area and likes to be very secretive. I even asked her why she works out with a hat really low in the gym and she said its so people in the gym don't talk to her and know who she is. When I told her that my friend said he knew a friend she works with, she said "Look I hope you don't tell people I talk to you or text you. Im very secretive" Now to me...this doesn't quite add up. You don't hide a friend unless your guilty about it.
3. After being friend zoned, I asked her out for "drinks and to have fun" and she said she was cool with it ....but "as friends" This again doesn't make sense to me. All my friends that have been friend zoned usually don't end up ever meeting up with the chick again and if they do it definitely isn't for drinks.
4. She is emotionally closed off. Told me she hadn't been on a date in 4 months and has "issues"..this made her MORE of a challenge for me.
Now Im not saying she is interested in me, but my spidy senses feel like this chick had at least some attraction to me. Obviously I kind of got what I asked for by telling her "women never want to be friends with me they only want to **** me" So thats exactly what I told her, Im playing it off and laughing about it like I don't care.
I gave you guys the facts so tell me what you think. Should I really bother asking her out on a second date? Or just try and see her around the gym, flirt a bit, and try and let her come to me?
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