"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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friendzone escape.. again.

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Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i dont really like number 3 very much but dont see any other problems, friendzone is something of a myth anyway imo (or at least its just self inflicted)
 

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mahoney said:
i dont really like number 3 very much but dont see any other problems, friendzone is something of a myth anyway imo (or at least its just self inflicted)
That is true, the number 3 might be a little bit of trouble. But I feel like my friend may have come on too strong. He tends to do that sometimes.
 

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That sounds like a big risk, if she did that to your bud then she'll probably do it to you.

If I were you, I'd **** the other girl real good some more and see if she is up for a threesome, but make it look like her idea. Like inception.
 

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number 3 is a bit of concern....

proceed but with caution...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oh, and let us know what happens :yes:
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!
How do you know for sure you are out of the friendzone?
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
O She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times
This isn't escaping the friendzone, this is getting with a chick that wants your c0ck...if anything, SHE is escaping the friendzone.
 

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Well guys just reporting back.. And I hooked up with this girl. Not too sure if it's going to go anywhere, but I did it.

We only made out for barely a minute. All of my "friends" at the party were CBing hard by just walking in on us and doing other stupid sh1t. She's a real quiet shy girl too, so once this happened she just wanted to stop and acted all weird.

If she keeps acting weird, I'm not even gonna bother.. Hopefully I can work this situation out!
 
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Alex DeLarge said:
Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!

You are risking ruin unnecessarily.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BettorOffSingle said:
You are risking ruin unnecessarily.
How so? Please explain.
 

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ARrocket said:
This isn't escaping the friendzone, this is getting with a chick that wants your c0ck...if anything, SHE is escaping the friendzone.
Exactly, I think the OP is mischaracterizing the friend zone. Friend zone is a place a woman puts you after either basically rejecting you or has otherwise determined you are not a guy she has a sexual interest in. There is no escaping the friend zone, and even if you can or do it is not worth the effort and time it'd take. Heating up a simmering pot so to speak is not escaping the friend zone or proof the friend zone doesn't exist.
 
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