"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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friendzone escape.. again.

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Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i dont really like number 3 very much but dont see any other problems, friendzone is something of a myth anyway imo (or at least its just self inflicted)
 
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mahoney said:
i dont really like number 3 very much but dont see any other problems, friendzone is something of a myth anyway imo (or at least its just self inflicted)
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That is true, the number 3 might be a little bit of trouble. But I feel like my friend may have come on too strong. He tends to do that sometimes.
 
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That sounds like a big risk, if she did that to your bud then she'll probably do it to you.

If I were you, I'd **** the other girl real good some more and see if she is up for a threesome, but make it look like her idea. Like inception.
 
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number 3 is a bit of concern....

proceed but with caution...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh, and let us know what happens :yes:
 
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Alex DeLarge said:
Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!
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How do you know for sure you are out of the friendzone?
 
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Alex DeLarge said:
O She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times
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This isn't escaping the friendzone, this is getting with a chick that wants your c0ck...if anything, SHE is escaping the friendzone.
 
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Well guys just reporting back.. And I hooked up with this girl. Not too sure if it's going to go anywhere, but I did it.

We only made out for barely a minute. All of my "friends" at the party were CBing hard by just walking in on us and doing other stupid sh1t. She's a real quiet shy girl too, so once this happened she just wanted to stop and acted all weird.

If she keeps acting weird, I'm not even gonna bother.. Hopefully I can work this situation out!
 
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Alex DeLarge said:
Okay guys, so you may have read a few weeks ago that I had broken out of the friendzone with this girl I know on a FWB level. Perfect by me! Girl is probably a 9 in my book.

So this weekend I'm gonna go for it again, with a different girl. She shows a lot of interest in me, is always flirting with me, and has tried to kiss me numerous times (during these times I had been with other girls and did not want to fvck up) There are just a few concerns on my mind at the moment about it.

1.) This girl, and the girl i had previously hooked up with are friends. Don't wanna make things complicated.. (Although they might get better :cool: )
2.) She is a little bit crazy
3.) She had done the same thing to one of my other friends, then when he went for it, she acted as if he had raped her.

I will report back with the outcome when the event takes place. Wish me luck guys!
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You are risking ruin unnecessarily.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BettorOffSingle said:
You are risking ruin unnecessarily.
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How so? Please explain.
 
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ARrocket said:
This isn't escaping the friendzone, this is getting with a chick that wants your c0ck...if anything, SHE is escaping the friendzone.
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Exactly, I think the OP is mischaracterizing the friend zone. Friend zone is a place a woman puts you after either basically rejecting you or has otherwise determined you are not a guy she has a sexual interest in. There is no escaping the friend zone, and even if you can or do it is not worth the effort and time it'd take. Heating up a simmering pot so to speak is not escaping the friend zone or proof the friend zone doesn't exist.
 
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