"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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friends with benefits.

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okay. theres this one girl and i know shes interested. but i heard from my girl "friend" that she has no time to date and that with friends with benefits, someone usually gets hurt. im not trying to find a relationship either, but more of a friends with benefits. how would i persuade her to want to do something? because at my school, there are not many "fish in the sea" to choose from. i would have moved on if there were. any suggestions would be great! i cant think of anything. thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tell her "We'd have great sex together. I'm just sure of it. The compatability between us is amazing, what do you think?"

So you're not actually asking her to have sex with you, but suggesting it.

But I have no expirience with a friends-with-benefits situation, so take my words with a grain of salt.
 
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this "advice" was so stupid it made me **** my pants.

1) build attraction
2) **** her
3) be sincere and tell her what you want from her. If she's ok with that, cool, nobody gets hurt, if she wants something more, stop seeing her. Easy as that.
 
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^^^^ Or if you want to be a bit sly, go out with her and then break up sayig that you don't see each other enough. She sobs, you say she can still come over when she can, and boom. Oh yeah, and the first bit of advice you got was utter ****e.
 
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You're probably too much in the friends zone.

Ironically friends with benifits only works if you aren't actually friends i.e. **** buddies. She's right someone will get hurt, probably you.

Also BTW mate, are you sure you don't want anything more?

She's probably detected that you have and therefore she doesn't want to hurt you. She might just also not see you in that way. That could be for a whole load of reasons.

Is she the best looking girl in your school by the way and are you being friends with her really just to win her - It won't work - face it and move on.

I suggest you walk away from this one because it sounds like you will never get her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First - stop talking to other women for suggestions. Find out for yourself and maybe you two will figure out something.
 
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Hey man, what's up with this forum? Dude, have you read any material here, your MINDSET is totally fvcked up right now?
 
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