"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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friends with benefits.

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okay. theres this one girl and i know shes interested. but i heard from my girl "friend" that she has no time to date and that with friends with benefits, someone usually gets hurt. im not trying to find a relationship either, but more of a friends with benefits. how would i persuade her to want to do something? because at my school, there are not many "fish in the sea" to choose from. i would have moved on if there were. any suggestions would be great! i cant think of anything. thanks!
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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tell her "We'd have great sex together. I'm just sure of it. The compatability between us is amazing, what do you think?"

So you're not actually asking her to have sex with you, but suggesting it.

But I have no expirience with a friends-with-benefits situation, so take my words with a grain of salt.
 
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this "advice" was so stupid it made me **** my pants.

1) build attraction
2) **** her
3) be sincere and tell her what you want from her. If she's ok with that, cool, nobody gets hurt, if she wants something more, stop seeing her. Easy as that.
 
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^^^^ Or if you want to be a bit sly, go out with her and then break up sayig that you don't see each other enough. She sobs, you say she can still come over when she can, and boom. Oh yeah, and the first bit of advice you got was utter ****e.
 
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You're probably too much in the friends zone.

Ironically friends with benifits only works if you aren't actually friends i.e. **** buddies. She's right someone will get hurt, probably you.

Also BTW mate, are you sure you don't want anything more?

She's probably detected that you have and therefore she doesn't want to hurt you. She might just also not see you in that way. That could be for a whole load of reasons.

Is she the best looking girl in your school by the way and are you being friends with her really just to win her - It won't work - face it and move on.

I suggest you walk away from this one because it sounds like you will never get her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First - stop talking to other women for suggestions. Find out for yourself and maybe you two will figure out something.
 
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Hey man, what's up with this forum? Dude, have you read any material here, your MINDSET is totally fvcked up right now?
 
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