"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friend zone (again?)

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GaryUranga

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How do you carry on a relationship with a girl where youre friends but not "just friends" anyone her have experience with this kind of thing, I'm really trying to build this right now but Im not sure what the right things to do here are
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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read escaping the friends zone article; theres a lot of solid info in the articles section anyways that you should readup on.
 
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first make SURE you not in the friend zone, i mean you may think your arn't be she may think diffrently. And if yall arnt then there shouldnt be a problem here getting with her if you just know and are good terms with and there is no "friend zone" then just get wit her. I have plenty of girls that are friends(girls i know that im on good terms wit) that i flirt with all the time and if i was really intrested in them i would have no problem getting the hook up.
 
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