"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friend zone (again?)

GaryUranga

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How do you carry on a relationship with a girl where youre friends but not "just friends" anyone her have experience with this kind of thing, I'm really trying to build this right now but Im not sure what the right things to do here are
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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read escaping the friends zone article; theres a lot of solid info in the articles section anyways that you should readup on.
 

djweses89

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first make SURE you not in the friend zone, i mean you may think your arn't be she may think diffrently. And if yall arnt then there shouldnt be a problem here getting with her if you just know and are good terms with and there is no "friend zone" then just get wit her. I have plenty of girls that are friends(girls i know that im on good terms wit) that i flirt with all the time and if i was really intrested in them i would have no problem getting the hook up.
 
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