"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Friend zone (again?)

GaryUranga

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How do you carry on a relationship with a girl where youre friends but not "just friends" anyone her have experience with this kind of thing, I'm really trying to build this right now but Im not sure what the right things to do here are
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WC2

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read escaping the friends zone article; theres a lot of solid info in the articles section anyways that you should readup on.
 

djweses89

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first make SURE you not in the friend zone, i mean you may think your arn't be she may think diffrently. And if yall arnt then there shouldnt be a problem here getting with her if you just know and are good terms with and there is no "friend zone" then just get wit her. I have plenty of girls that are friends(girls i know that im on good terms wit) that i flirt with all the time and if i was really intrested in them i would have no problem getting the hook up.
 
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