"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friend zone (again?)

GaryUranga

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How do you carry on a relationship with a girl where youre friends but not "just friends" anyone her have experience with this kind of thing, I'm really trying to build this right now but Im not sure what the right things to do here are
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WC2

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read escaping the friends zone article; theres a lot of solid info in the articles section anyways that you should readup on.
 

djweses89

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first make SURE you not in the friend zone, i mean you may think your arn't be she may think diffrently. And if yall arnt then there shouldnt be a problem here getting with her if you just know and are good terms with and there is no "friend zone" then just get wit her. I have plenty of girls that are friends(girls i know that im on good terms wit) that i flirt with all the time and if i was really intrested in them i would have no problem getting the hook up.
 
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