"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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friend likes my g/f

Faze

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So here's the background...
My friend and I both liked this girl and he asked her out first. She LJBFed him and when I asked her out she said yes.
Flash forward a few months...
Now the girl is my g/f and my friend has his own girlfriend. But I'm pretty sure he still likes her and is still trying to get her. He always wants to hang out with us two and hangs around her way more than his own girlfriend. He constantly tries to set up double dates for us but when I refuse and my girl can't go either, he cancels on his own date.
She and I were going out for coffee after school and he "coincidentally" ran into there pretending to be all surprised that she was there.
So to summarize, my friend has basically become my girlfriends "stalker" and all the deceptive actions he takes is getting me pissed off. If I confront him, he'll definately deny it since there's no solid proof and since my girlfriend is friends with him, she seems oblivious to his sneakiness.
Maybe this is just jealousy kicking in or maybe I'm just being AFC. If I confront my g/f about this she may or may not see it as my being insecure and all but if I just keep letting this happen, it's gonna annoy me to death because he keeps trying to get involved with the two of us (her mostly). So my fellow DJ's, what would you recommend for a situation like this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mikel

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Trust your girlfriend, she said no to him and yes too you. Just look over it until it becomes a real problem or she mentions something about it to you.

That being said, if my friend got with some girl I wanted bad then I would just have to hold off my feelings cause that is your bro and most girls aren't going to be around for you forever.
 

DJ Alejandro

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you should at least tell him to be a friend and leave you two alone for some quality time together. friend or stalker, he's gonna get the point that you're quite pissed off.
 

nath

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if hes coming in your way of a lay (also known as a ****blocking) then tell him to stop. Otherwise if you know your not going to get laid by this chick, but want her as social proof or for the occasional macking, try not to have a oneitus over her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WrEcKLeSS2000

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First off....Bros before hoes...He should respect the fact that she is YOUR girl now, and find his own girls to go out with...If he doesn't and is still trying to make moves on her...Sounds like he really isn't YOUR friend.
 

fezz

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He doesnt sound like too much of a friend. but dont worry about it dude. If you really are worried about your friend getting your girl (which I dont think you are), then you shouldnt be, because your friend sounds like a real AFC
 
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