You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
(after having a good conversation)hopelessguy said:lol i dont know how to make a girl as me for my number in a regular pick up, how do i do it here?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
when you ask her for a drink/date/wherever, if she gave out her NO. to you and didnt see you like that , shell say no, so again you dont waste time...Black Dog said:(after having a good conversation) and making her laugh, etc,etc, IOI's from her...
"Hey this was a good talk! Too bad we don't see each other every day.."
confidently say (and smile) "What's your number" (unless she's retarded she will understand the implications, )
whats the worst that will happen , you get rejected, NEXT!
What goes on in a meeting should stay at a meeting. However, use the meeting as a way to DHV. Offer something important or witty, but don't overdue it. So do your homework, and be prepared for this "important" meeting. When you have the opportunity AFTER the meeting, then take her aside and have a talk. Hit on something she did during the meeting, or whatever (the conversation part takes practice so you need to do this for at least practice). You don't even have to get her number then, just make your presence known and offer something that is interesting in your talk. Don't fvck this part up by not doing this, or you'll regret, or even maybe too late.hopelessguy said:Friend is introducing me to girl i like. how do i handle the sitch? i cant do a number close because itll be during a meeting theyre holding for a project theyre doing, but i need to do something to make sure i can pull this chick to the side later and get her digits. halp!
LoL...i just got on this board a couple days ago, but I only sift through threads that seem interesting to me (hence, title is important) since there is a lot going on in the Don Juan Discussion chapter. I'm mainly more prevalent in the Mature Forum. What is your thread? I'll take a look at it and give you my opinion.YT827 said:Why the **** does every thread but mine gets attention?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.