Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
(after having a good conversation)hopelessguy said:lol i dont know how to make a girl as me for my number in a regular pick up, how do i do it here?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
when you ask her for a drink/date/wherever, if she gave out her NO. to you and didnt see you like that , shell say no, so again you dont waste time...Black Dog said:(after having a good conversation) and making her laugh, etc,etc, IOI's from her...
"Hey this was a good talk! Too bad we don't see each other every day.."
confidently say (and smile) "What's your number" (unless she's retarded she will understand the implications, )
whats the worst that will happen , you get rejected, NEXT!
What goes on in a meeting should stay at a meeting. However, use the meeting as a way to DHV. Offer something important or witty, but don't overdue it. So do your homework, and be prepared for this "important" meeting. When you have the opportunity AFTER the meeting, then take her aside and have a talk. Hit on something she did during the meeting, or whatever (the conversation part takes practice so you need to do this for at least practice). You don't even have to get her number then, just make your presence known and offer something that is interesting in your talk. Don't fvck this part up by not doing this, or you'll regret, or even maybe too late.hopelessguy said:Friend is introducing me to girl i like. how do i handle the sitch? i cant do a number close because itll be during a meeting theyre holding for a project theyre doing, but i need to do something to make sure i can pull this chick to the side later and get her digits. halp!
LoL...i just got on this board a couple days ago, but I only sift through threads that seem interesting to me (hence, title is important) since there is a lot going on in the Don Juan Discussion chapter. I'm mainly more prevalent in the Mature Forum. What is your thread? I'll take a look at it and give you my opinion.YT827 said:Why the **** does every thread but mine gets attention?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.