You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
(after having a good conversation)hopelessguy said:lol i dont know how to make a girl as me for my number in a regular pick up, how do i do it here?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
when you ask her for a drink/date/wherever, if she gave out her NO. to you and didnt see you like that , shell say no, so again you dont waste time...Black Dog said:(after having a good conversation) and making her laugh, etc,etc, IOI's from her...
"Hey this was a good talk! Too bad we don't see each other every day.."
confidently say (and smile) "What's your number" (unless she's retarded she will understand the implications, )
whats the worst that will happen , you get rejected, NEXT!
What goes on in a meeting should stay at a meeting. However, use the meeting as a way to DHV. Offer something important or witty, but don't overdue it. So do your homework, and be prepared for this "important" meeting. When you have the opportunity AFTER the meeting, then take her aside and have a talk. Hit on something she did during the meeting, or whatever (the conversation part takes practice so you need to do this for at least practice). You don't even have to get her number then, just make your presence known and offer something that is interesting in your talk. Don't fvck this part up by not doing this, or you'll regret, or even maybe too late.hopelessguy said:Friend is introducing me to girl i like. how do i handle the sitch? i cant do a number close because itll be during a meeting theyre holding for a project theyre doing, but i need to do something to make sure i can pull this chick to the side later and get her digits. halp!
LoL...i just got on this board a couple days ago, but I only sift through threads that seem interesting to me (hence, title is important) since there is a lot going on in the Don Juan Discussion chapter. I'm mainly more prevalent in the Mature Forum. What is your thread? I'll take a look at it and give you my opinion.YT827 said:Why the **** does every thread but mine gets attention?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.