"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Friend givin me AFC advice

Raikojo17

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my friend is a huge AFC. recently i've been helpin him ou wit his girl problems, tryint o help him get this one chick, but now he thinks he can help me out wit the girl im working on (he kno's her, they used to be friends). He's gettin on my case talkin about im fvckin up wit this girl because i turned her down because i had plans wit my bros (bros before hoes right?). that made her kinda mad at me, but i told her we'd hang out sometime and she said it was cool.

but he thinks im ****ing up?! lol just because i pissed her off. he's tellin me i should have chose her over my bros to make her happy. this is like the 5th time i've pissed her off ever since i've started talking to her, and yet she keeps coming back to me, claiming she wasnt mad (yea right!). every time we fight we make up, so jus because i piss her off once doesnt mean i'm fvckin up right?

but still, i cant help but wonder if he's speakin the truth. he says it alot,and it's startin to get to me. can u really lose a girl jus because u piss her off alittle bit?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kev07

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in most cases no.

I wouldn't do it too much, you need to give in once in a while or else she will think that you're just using her as backup or something.

just make a plan with her and stick it through, and don't worry if you piss her off over something that isn't big, girls don't use reason.

i know first hand from one of my friends, he treats his gf like she doesn't exist. They probably hang out once every 2 weeks or so and when they're at school, he just chills with his boys and she just lingers around for a bit then goes back to her hang out spot. I wouldn't worry about it.

Just don't take bros before hos too seriously, if you make plans, make sure you follow through, or else it's just rude
 

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dont be stupid. its bros before hoes but not like that... if u make plans with her before ur bros, u stick to the plans with her. ur lucky she still talkin to u.
 

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Women can't get everything they want. And when they do, they still aren't satisfied. So no, don'tp give a woman everything she wants; on the other hand don't be a jerk.

As far as advice from inexperienced friends, I've learned that there's little you can do to convince your friends of anything. Actions speak louder than words. When your friend gives you lame advice, just nod your head. No need to tell your boys everything you're doing with a girl; just the juicy stuff.

Do your thing, and the rest will work itself out.
 

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pissing her off 5 times instead of actually going out with her sounds pretty dumb
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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