"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friend givin me AFC advice

Raikojo17

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my friend is a huge AFC. recently i've been helpin him ou wit his girl problems, tryint o help him get this one chick, but now he thinks he can help me out wit the girl im working on (he kno's her, they used to be friends). He's gettin on my case talkin about im fvckin up wit this girl because i turned her down because i had plans wit my bros (bros before hoes right?). that made her kinda mad at me, but i told her we'd hang out sometime and she said it was cool.

but he thinks im ****ing up?! lol just because i pissed her off. he's tellin me i should have chose her over my bros to make her happy. this is like the 5th time i've pissed her off ever since i've started talking to her, and yet she keeps coming back to me, claiming she wasnt mad (yea right!). every time we fight we make up, so jus because i piss her off once doesnt mean i'm fvckin up right?

but still, i cant help but wonder if he's speakin the truth. he says it alot,and it's startin to get to me. can u really lose a girl jus because u piss her off alittle bit?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kev07

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in most cases no.

I wouldn't do it too much, you need to give in once in a while or else she will think that you're just using her as backup or something.

just make a plan with her and stick it through, and don't worry if you piss her off over something that isn't big, girls don't use reason.

i know first hand from one of my friends, he treats his gf like she doesn't exist. They probably hang out once every 2 weeks or so and when they're at school, he just chills with his boys and she just lingers around for a bit then goes back to her hang out spot. I wouldn't worry about it.

Just don't take bros before hos too seriously, if you make plans, make sure you follow through, or else it's just rude
 

CORVETTE06

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dont be stupid. its bros before hoes but not like that... if u make plans with her before ur bros, u stick to the plans with her. ur lucky she still talkin to u.
 

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Women can't get everything they want. And when they do, they still aren't satisfied. So no, don'tp give a woman everything she wants; on the other hand don't be a jerk.

As far as advice from inexperienced friends, I've learned that there's little you can do to convince your friends of anything. Actions speak louder than words. When your friend gives you lame advice, just nod your head. No need to tell your boys everything you're doing with a girl; just the juicy stuff.

Do your thing, and the rest will work itself out.
 

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pissing her off 5 times instead of actually going out with her sounds pretty dumb
 

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