"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Freshman chick+dance coming up

The Shocker

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Hey, what's up dudes, had a question that I hope you guys could help me figure out...

Our Sadie Hawkins dance is coming up in a few weeks, and this one freshman chick I know likes me MAY ask me...I'm a junior, so it is a little bit weird. Another thing is she had a crush on one of my friends earlier this year (and he liked her too, just didn't ask her out because she's a frosh).

I don't know her THAT well to say that I really like her, though she is somewhat enjoyable to be around. She's okay-looking, about a 6...

If she has the balls to ask me, do you think I should say yes? If not, I was thinking about playing poker with some buddies that night anyway, so how should I go about letting her down with the poker excuse (exact words)?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SenorSuave

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Well, if you do let her down, you just have to say that you've already made plans for that night. Simple as that.
 

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I'd rather dance then play poker (for if she asks you). Unless you're playing for money, which could be interesting and maybe even fun =P
 

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He said the chick's a six though. On my scale six isn't achieving much
 

The Shocker

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True dat, Senor. And to Grand Wizzard, yes it's for real money, has been a lot of fun the last few times we have done it...But I don't know how many people won't show because they're going to the dance.

Whatever...we'll see if she actually has the balls to ask me at all, and how she'll go about it...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Patrick124

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2 years older and a u think a 6 is exceptable?
get out of here. lol jk, but F that S. raise ur bar bro, this aint limbo, the lower the # the worse, go big or go home alone.
 

The Shocker

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lol @ patrick...Thanks.
 
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