"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freshman chick+dance coming up

The Shocker

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Hey, what's up dudes, had a question that I hope you guys could help me figure out...

Our Sadie Hawkins dance is coming up in a few weeks, and this one freshman chick I know likes me MAY ask me...I'm a junior, so it is a little bit weird. Another thing is she had a crush on one of my friends earlier this year (and he liked her too, just didn't ask her out because she's a frosh).

I don't know her THAT well to say that I really like her, though she is somewhat enjoyable to be around. She's okay-looking, about a 6...

If she has the balls to ask me, do you think I should say yes? If not, I was thinking about playing poker with some buddies that night anyway, so how should I go about letting her down with the poker excuse (exact words)?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, if you do let her down, you just have to say that you've already made plans for that night. Simple as that.
 

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I'd rather dance then play poker (for if she asks you). Unless you're playing for money, which could be interesting and maybe even fun =P
 

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He said the chick's a six though. On my scale six isn't achieving much
 

The Shocker

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True dat, Senor. And to Grand Wizzard, yes it's for real money, has been a lot of fun the last few times we have done it...But I don't know how many people won't show because they're going to the dance.

Whatever...we'll see if she actually has the balls to ask me at all, and how she'll go about it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 years older and a u think a 6 is exceptable?
get out of here. lol jk, but F that S. raise ur bar bro, this aint limbo, the lower the # the worse, go big or go home alone.
 

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lol @ patrick...Thanks.
 
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