WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Hey, Elturd.
How about some quiet time?
How about some quiet time?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You're in high school buddy, if these girls really were interested in you, you'd know about it by them coming back to you.ElStud said:Well yeah, it depends, sometimes they are and sometimes they're not. But the thing is, if the girls are clearly laughing at my jokes and not rejecting kino, these guys will somehow say the girls aren't atleast a little bit interested. In this post, nah they really weren't interested, but it was a fun approach nonetheless.
Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.Phyzzle said:Damn, elmnick has spoken.
I've never flamed ElStud, since he's sort of an anti-keyboard jockey. He actually posts UNsuccessful field reports, unlike an actual KBJ, where every situation magically ends up with every woman wanting him.
Frankly, I think he'll be more successful when he can go to a club and get drunk. Some of these offensively obnoxious guys who barge in and start gabbing about nothing can be quite successful with drunk girls.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Get a blog.ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.Kev07 said:Get a blog.
Hey Elstud,ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
Where does me telling you to get a blog have anythingn to do with reading long sentences?ElStud said:It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
:crackup:skirtChaser said:this guy is so far behind he thinks he is first, in other words, he's been lapped and doesn't even know it.
Seems like no one likes or respects you.they're like "Go away!"
LMAO. haha i didn't read your posts before i saw that stickied thread that was making fun of you. I think you do a better job making fun of yourself then that guy did.ElStud said:So now it's the next lunch period and I approach a group of girls, one who was Lindsey and the others who I didn't really know. So immediately she's like "Mike, let's play the quiet game"
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.