WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Hey, Elturd.
How about some quiet time?
How about some quiet time?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You're in high school buddy, if these girls really were interested in you, you'd know about it by them coming back to you.ElStud said:Well yeah, it depends, sometimes they are and sometimes they're not. But the thing is, if the girls are clearly laughing at my jokes and not rejecting kino, these guys will somehow say the girls aren't atleast a little bit interested. In this post, nah they really weren't interested, but it was a fun approach nonetheless.
Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.Phyzzle said:Damn, elmnick has spoken.
I've never flamed ElStud, since he's sort of an anti-keyboard jockey. He actually posts UNsuccessful field reports, unlike an actual KBJ, where every situation magically ends up with every woman wanting him.
Frankly, I think he'll be more successful when he can go to a club and get drunk. Some of these offensively obnoxious guys who barge in and start gabbing about nothing can be quite successful with drunk girls.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Get a blog.ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.Kev07 said:Get a blog.
Hey Elstud,ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
Where does me telling you to get a blog have anythingn to do with reading long sentences?ElStud said:It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup:skirtChaser said:this guy is so far behind he thinks he is first, in other words, he's been lapped and doesn't even know it.
Seems like no one likes or respects you.they're like "Go away!"
LMAO. haha i didn't read your posts before i saw that stickied thread that was making fun of you. I think you do a better job making fun of yourself then that guy did.ElStud said:So now it's the next lunch period and I approach a group of girls, one who was Lindsey and the others who I didn't really know. So immediately she's like "Mike, let's play the quiet game"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.