WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Hey, Elturd.
How about some quiet time?
How about some quiet time?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You're in high school buddy, if these girls really were interested in you, you'd know about it by them coming back to you.ElStud said:Well yeah, it depends, sometimes they are and sometimes they're not. But the thing is, if the girls are clearly laughing at my jokes and not rejecting kino, these guys will somehow say the girls aren't atleast a little bit interested. In this post, nah they really weren't interested, but it was a fun approach nonetheless.
Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.Phyzzle said:Damn, elmnick has spoken.
I've never flamed ElStud, since he's sort of an anti-keyboard jockey. He actually posts UNsuccessful field reports, unlike an actual KBJ, where every situation magically ends up with every woman wanting him.
Frankly, I think he'll be more successful when he can go to a club and get drunk. Some of these offensively obnoxious guys who barge in and start gabbing about nothing can be quite successful with drunk girls.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Get a blog.ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.Kev07 said:Get a blog.
Hey Elstud,ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
Where does me telling you to get a blog have anythingn to do with reading long sentences?ElStud said:It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup:skirtChaser said:this guy is so far behind he thinks he is first, in other words, he's been lapped and doesn't even know it.
Seems like no one likes or respects you.they're like "Go away!"
LMAO. haha i didn't read your posts before i saw that stickied thread that was making fun of you. I think you do a better job making fun of yourself then that guy did.ElStud said:So now it's the next lunch period and I approach a group of girls, one who was Lindsey and the others who I didn't really know. So immediately she's like "Mike, let's play the quiet game"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.