WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Hey, Elturd.
How about some quiet time?
How about some quiet time?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You're in high school buddy, if these girls really were interested in you, you'd know about it by them coming back to you.ElStud said:Well yeah, it depends, sometimes they are and sometimes they're not. But the thing is, if the girls are clearly laughing at my jokes and not rejecting kino, these guys will somehow say the girls aren't atleast a little bit interested. In this post, nah they really weren't interested, but it was a fun approach nonetheless.
Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.Phyzzle said:Damn, elmnick has spoken.
I've never flamed ElStud, since he's sort of an anti-keyboard jockey. He actually posts UNsuccessful field reports, unlike an actual KBJ, where every situation magically ends up with every woman wanting him.
Frankly, I think he'll be more successful when he can go to a club and get drunk. Some of these offensively obnoxious guys who barge in and start gabbing about nothing can be quite successful with drunk girls.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Get a blog.ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.Kev07 said:Get a blog.
Hey Elstud,ElStud said:Well what good sir, IS a successful FR? If it means I didn't get a number of a kiss, I don't really care. I approach girls with the attitude of improving. Good or bad, every approach can help me improve. Wow, I'm not getting numbers, well maybe that's just because I don't go up there saying "OMG! I MUST HAVE HER NUMBER!". Second of all, half the guys bragging about numbers, have NO proof at all of being able to get them. I'd much rather focus on escalating things to a kiss with a girl, rather than focus on getting her digits. A good FR to me is if the girl seems genuinely interested and laughing. Also for you guys telling ME to get numbers, where's your proof of getting numbers? Aha, no where to be found. And you guys seem to have this misperception I post these FR's for your entertainment, well that's a misconception. I post these FR's for the sake of recording my interactions. Don't like like em'? Don't reply, easy as can be.
Where does me telling you to get a blog have anythingn to do with reading long sentences?ElStud said:It's not my fault you can't read long sentences.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:crackup:skirtChaser said:this guy is so far behind he thinks he is first, in other words, he's been lapped and doesn't even know it.
Seems like no one likes or respects you.they're like "Go away!"
LMAO. haha i didn't read your posts before i saw that stickied thread that was making fun of you. I think you do a better job making fun of yourself then that guy did.ElStud said:So now it's the next lunch period and I approach a group of girls, one who was Lindsey and the others who I didn't really know. So immediately she's like "Mike, let's play the quiet game"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.