"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR- Gym chick. Future DR.

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Hey SP, tell us what happened!

It's end of January. Tapped that ass? :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by djbr
Hey SP, tell us what happened!

It's end of January. Tapped that ass? :D
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The shizzle (haha, I love using the new people in the US start making up hahaha) is like this...

I got my income slashed bigtime, 1 of 2 of my jobs dissolved to nothing, my solid income comes from this university I teach at, and they're at holidays right now. So December, and January, has been really tight. I owe a bit of money right now. But am getting back on track right now, and well, money is starting to flow again. Although budget is still tight. And I'm not at the same gym right now, so I haven't seen her even at the gym.

I'll get into details this week, probably tomorrow, but basicaly, I called her Saturday, it's on for this week, probably Monday. The plan is to hang out at my house. So ...

Btw, I was reading this over, and I noticed the part in which she said that i'd have to wait until she got divorced. That was so obviously a **** test which I passed gloriously with the "holding hands" **** haha.
 
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Originally posted by SamePendo
I'll get into details this week, probably tomorrow, but basicaly, I called her Saturday, it's on for this week, probably Monday. The plan is to hang out at my house. So ...
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Dude, HELL YEAH!!! :woo:

Buy some condoms -- enjoy :)

I feel happy for you! :cheer:
 
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Originally posted by SamePendo
Btw, I was reading this over, and I noticed the part in which she said that i'd have to wait until she got divorced. That was so obviously a **** test which I passed gloriously with the "holding hands" **** haha.
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I looked back and really, that was spot on. :)
 
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We were supposed to meet. She didn't show up. I called her, I was fvcking furious at the time (I get like this when in a strict diet... add to that I'm getting urges to masturbate now and then...) so, I called, and she answered, and was all apologetic. She was going to skip our date because she had to do some ****. Then, her conciousness came into play and she said stuff about being married, you know. I can honestly say that I could have played that off in person, but I feel like a dumb **** "macking" to a electronic device that is smaller than a normal dollar bill. So I said, sure, it's not as if I'm going to get mad at you.

Next!.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Unlucky dude. This time it didnt pay off but you gave it the best shot possible and that is worth alot of respect.

You cant win them all
 
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That was a good field report, if nothing else just to test the morality of a random chick. Some guys could look at you in a bad way, some in a good way. If you weren't annoying the girl or disrespecting her in any way, I don't see any wrong in what you did.

I personally don't hit on girls that are taken unless they are extremely inviting toward my advances. What I mean is, I don't want other guys viewing my gf as a "piece of ass" that they might get one day, so I don't do it to other guys' gf either. If this woman's husband had walked in the gym, would you have kept hitting on her and tried to "out-alpha" him? I hope not, because that's just being an *******, because he surely didn't do anything to you, and I don't understand disrespecting people for no reason...
 
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