"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FR- Gym chick. Future DR.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The shizzle (haha, I love using the new people in the US start making up hahaha) is like this...Originally posted by djbr
Hey SP, tell us what happened!
It's end of January. Tapped that ass?
I got my income slashed bigtime, 1 of 2 of my jobs dissolved to nothing, my solid income comes from this university I teach at, and they're at holidays right now. So December, and January, has been really tight. I owe a bit of money right now. But am getting back on track right now, and well, money is starting to flow again. Although budget is still tight. And I'm not at the same gym right now, so I haven't seen her even at the gym.
I'll get into details this week, probably tomorrow, but basicaly, I called her Saturday, it's on for this week, probably Monday. The plan is to hang out at my house. So ...
Btw, I was reading this over, and I noticed the part in which she said that i'd have to wait until she got divorced. That was so obviously a **** test which I passed gloriously with the "holding hands" **** haha.
Next!.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You cant win them all
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I personally don't hit on girls that are taken unless they are extremely inviting toward my advances. What I mean is, I don't want other guys viewing my gf as a "piece of ass" that they might get one day, so I don't do it to other guys' gf either. If this woman's husband had walked in the gym, would you have kept hitting on her and tried to "out-alpha" him? I hope not, because that's just being an *******, because he surely didn't do anything to you, and I don't understand disrespecting people for no reason...