"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
FR- Gym chick. Future DR.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The shizzle (haha, I love using the new people in the US start making up hahaha) is like this...Originally posted by djbr
Hey SP, tell us what happened!
It's end of January. Tapped that ass?
I got my income slashed bigtime, 1 of 2 of my jobs dissolved to nothing, my solid income comes from this university I teach at, and they're at holidays right now. So December, and January, has been really tight. I owe a bit of money right now. But am getting back on track right now, and well, money is starting to flow again. Although budget is still tight. And I'm not at the same gym right now, so I haven't seen her even at the gym.
I'll get into details this week, probably tomorrow, but basicaly, I called her Saturday, it's on for this week, probably Monday. The plan is to hang out at my house. So ...
Btw, I was reading this over, and I noticed the part in which she said that i'd have to wait until she got divorced. That was so obviously a **** test which I passed gloriously with the "holding hands" **** haha.
Next!.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I personally don't hit on girls that are taken unless they are extremely inviting toward my advances. What I mean is, I don't want other guys viewing my gf as a "piece of ass" that they might get one day, so I don't do it to other guys' gf either. If this woman's husband had walked in the gym, would you have kept hitting on her and tried to "out-alpha" him? I hope not, because that's just being an *******, because he surely didn't do anything to you, and I don't understand disrespecting people for no reason...