Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: GYM Approaching Day 2 Leads to Confrontation!!!

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So I went to the GYM and tried a variation of approaches this time.

Evan12 suggested that I do this approach.

I would go to a machine that is being used by an HB, I would approach the HB and say "Hey, How many sets do you have left" in a serious tone.

One HB 7 brunette, responded "3 more sets". I said to her with a smile "Hey your hogging up the machine, I don't have all day" in a joking way.

I noticed that she was not using the machine correctly, I said "Hey thats all wrong, your terrible at this!!! Ill tell you what, you give me your number, and we can work on your form sometime".

The HB 7 says "that would be nice if my boyfriend wasn't here."
The HB 7 then gets up and a few minutes later, she and her 6'3" boyfriend approach me.

Her boyfriend asks me "Hey is there a problem here?" in a rather angry tone.

I told him "yeah theres a problem, im trying some day game and approach HBs at this gym but none of them are giving me their numbers, can you help me?"

Her boyfriend did not like my joke and said "OK PAL, YOU ARE COMING OUTSIDE RIGHT NOW, I'M GONNA KICK YOUR ASS".
I quickly asked him "Who do you train with". He said "What?".

I gave him a long list of disciplines of martial arts I trained with along with the number of years I trained in them. I gave him names of my training partners and people i've trained with including former and existing ufc fighters.

He said to me "Listen DUDE, I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU, just don't go around asking my GF for her number".

I asked him "Are you going to beat me up now? I'm so scared of you".

His GF took him away and exclaimed to me "LOOK WE'RE NOT FIGHTING".

True story, I had this happen in the bar before too.

No Bullsh1t.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dude your a tool. Grow-up or gtfo. If i didn't pity you, you'd be the type i would roll on. Does none of this really sink in?

You have the entire forum talking sh1t on you and it just goes in your right ear and out the left because you're not even making an effort to change.

Benching 300 lbs won't make much of a difference when you get stabbed, shot, or jumped and judging by your personality and attitude i can definitely see it happening one day. You need some medical help and should see some sort of psychologist.
 

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AAAgent said:
Dude your a tool. Grow-up or gtfo. If i didn't pity you, you'd be the type i would roll on. Does none of this really sink you?

You have the entire forum talking sh1t on you and it just goes in your right ear and out the left because you're not even making an effort to change.

Benching 300 lbs won't make much of a difference when you get stabbed, shot, or jumped and judging by your personality and attitude i can definitely see it happening one day. You need some medical help and should see some sort of psychologist.
My friend, you are overlooking the fact that you're speaking to a troll. He's just clowning around on the internet to get attention from a forum full of men. His stories are fairy tales. Pun intended.
 

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I pray you are right brother.
 

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AAAgent said:
Dude your a tool. Grow-up or gtfo. If i didn't pity you, you'd be the type i would roll on. Does none of this really sink in?

You have the entire forum talking sh1t on you and it just goes in your right ear and out the left because you're not even making an effort to change.

Benching 300 lbs won't make much of a difference when you get stabbed, shot, or jumped and judging by your personality and attitude i can definitely see it happening one day. You need some medical help and should see some sort of psychologist.
Listen, I didn't do anything wrong. All I did was try evan12's advice which he clearly told me to do (see previous thread).

Maybe she didn't understand I was joking and that she wasn't hogging my machine.

I don't see why that guy wanted to beat me up.
And I took the smart route, I didn't fight him.

You can't ask a girl at the gym for her number or some insecure dude is going to try to punk you?

Go try it for yourself at the gym. This will happen to you too.

Evan12 has this ever happened to you? I was trying to joke around and neg.

My friend, you are overlooking the fact that you're speaking to a troll. He's just clowning around on the internet to get attention from a forum full of men. His stories are fairy tales. Pun intended.
My FRIEND THIS IS A TRUE STORY.
I SWEAR!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Once again people wonder why I ask for pics when it comes to you guys. And the more post I see the more I'm convinced that sosuave is filled with a bunch of nerds and weirdos
 

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gspshields2 said:
Her boyfriend did not like my joke and said "OK PAL, YOU ARE COMING OUTSIDE RIGHT NOW, I'M GONNA KICK YOUR ASS".
I quickly asked him "Who do you train with". He said "What?".

I gave him a long list of disciplines of martial arts I trained with along with the number of years I trained in them. I gave him names of my training partners and people i've trained with including former and existing ufc .
Lol, dude you're a riot!
 

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Solomon said:
Once again people wonder why I ask for pics when it comes to you guys. And the more post I see the more I'm convinced that sosuave is filled with a bunch of nerds and weirdos
Hey, Solomon! How's the vitamin V working out for you these days? :D
 

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And then Roidzilla burst into the room and took all of the women.

True story.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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loveshogun said:
And then Roidzilla burst into the room and took all of the women.

True story.
:crackup: :crackup: :D :D :crackup::rockon:
 

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Have to admit, I actually laughed at this trolling post.
 

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Wasn't very funny at all, pretty try hard for a reaction
 

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Damn.

This post made me want to eat some Popeye's Chicken and play Zelda! :D

3 piece, all spicy thighs with some Red Beans & Rice! And a biscuit FTW! :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im not gonna lie, I laughed at the OP. Weve been needing a new troll anyway. It beats the hell out of those threads whining about Western women.
 

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Solomon said:
Once again people wonder why I ask for pics when it comes to you guys. And the more post I see the more I'm convinced that sosuave is filled with a bunch of nerds and weirdos
I agree
 

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Being a man and standing up to people like that does work. Trust me, i know. Showing a backbone does make people respect you.

But you're a blatant mekout. FFS we need to get rid of these people. 200odd posts ffs
 

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lol , a 6'3 dude at a gym , will not be threatened by YOU hitting on his girl ,plus


ufc star trainers XD oh my god. .lol come on now
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Im not gonna lie, I laughed at the OP. Weve been needing a new troll anyway. It beats the hell out of those threads whining about Western women.
lol those are all his threads too lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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