"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: Girl talked to me.

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So I was in Science class, doing this air guitar thing and this girl in the class asks...
Girl: Do you play guitar?
Me: Yeah.
Girl: Oh, I play piano.
Me: Ah, that's cool because we could start a band. Don't know how good you are though.
Girl: Oh, I'm pretty sweet.
Me: Well, that's cool we need to get together and jam sometime. What kind of music do you play?
Girl: Oh, classical.
Me: Oh do you play any rock?
Girl: I could try.
Me: Cool, well if you could do that we could definitely get together and start something.
Girl: Yeah.
And that was that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cool, did you full close?
 

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You say "oh" a lot lol...

Nice but you gotta work on your closing... be interesting and keep talking to her because you don't wanna seem boring. make yourself occupied!!!
Also, it's kind of boring when you just end with 1 word.. she also sounded uninterested.

Yeah.
 

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Nice, basic convo with a girl that leads to getting together sometime. But, you forgot 3 little words. "What's your number."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
3 little words. "What's your number."
much smoother than,
can I call you?
can I get your number?
etc.

it even has a period instead of a question mark... I like that!
 

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Thanks guys but no offense GWA but I don't think you should be giving advice. Sure it sounds good, but likely you yourself haven't used it in field yet.
 

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ElStud said:
Thanks guys but no offense GWA but I don't think you should be giving advice. Sure it sounds good, but likely you yourself haven't used it in field yet.
Actually I have used this.
I've asked for #s in question form and got an answer in statement form.

You have to close though man.. not just leaving it at yeah... I've also done that... not good, it sucks.
 

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Well I just met her I don't want to close her so soon. She probably just saw me as high value and decided to talk to me.
 

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ElStud said:
She probably just saw me as high value and decided to talk to me.
No she actually saw you playing air guitar and decided to ask you if you played normal guitar too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
No she actually saw you playing air guitar and decided to ask you if you played normal guitar too.
Point is she was interested and yes, probably saw me as high value. If she wasn't interested she probably wouldn't of asked it in the first place and wouldn't have brought up the piano thing.
 

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ElStud said:
Point is she was interested and yes, probably saw me as high value. If she wasn't interested she probably wouldn't of asked it in the first place and wouldn't have brought up the piano thing.
Elstud, it's good that you have the mindset of being higher value, but all she did was ask you if you played guitar.
She wasn't all like "hey sexy, let me play your air guitar" while strumming you over the crotch...
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Elstud, it's good that you have the mindset of being higher value, but all she did was ask you if you played guitar.
She wasn't all like "hey sexy, let me play your air guitar" while strumming you over the crotch...
She didn't back away when I initiated meeting her though. She could of easily said "No that's not a good idea". This is why I say don't give advice man, you may be somewhat experienced, but it's clear you still have some way to go.
 

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ElStud said:
She didn't back away when I initiated meeting her though. She could of easily said "No that's not a good idea".
haha she must love you.
 
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El Stud, you are amazing man. Can you teach me all your sklls please. I am only 2/5 with approaching girls and that is below 50%. Wanna hook me up man?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
haha she must love you.
Again this is why I tell you to NOT give advice. Sure you might've tested things in field, but you have a LONG way to go and it's clear you don't know a lot of stuff about interest, attraction in the like. That's okay, but when you try to act like you do know something about attraction that's bad.
 

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ElStud said:
Again this is why I tell you to NOT give advice. Sure you might've tested things in field, but you have a LONG way to go and it's clear you don't know a lot of stuff about interest, attraction in the like. That's okay, but when you try to act like you do know something about attraction that's bad.
Oh really? Same for you in this case.
 

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It's called a conversation it has nothing to do with her being interested in you as love interest or anything.
 

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ElStud said:
FR: Girl talked to me.
jaja!

the sarcasm in the replies are hilarious!

well i think they are sarcasm... not sure. but it's still hilarious how they are making it seem like an incredible feat that a girl talked to you. well it might actually be a incredible feat for you.

great job! you are now lvl. -1/5 instead of lvl. -5/5... a few more FRs you might actually make it out of the hole and be a lvl. 0/5 Half-elf Alphamale!
 
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El Stud, you are amazing man. Can you teach me all your sklls please. I am only 2/5 with approaching girls and that is below 50%. Wanna hook me up man?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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