nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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What’s up guys. Posting a report from last weekend. This one felt different, not because anything crazy happened, but because I’m starting to see real momentum build from going out consistently.
For a while my game consistency was pretty fragile. Everything depended on weekends lining up perfectly. I needed energy, time, and nothing getting in the way. As expected, life kept interfering. I would miss a weekend, then the next time I went out it felt like starting from zero again. AA came back, hesitation came back, and it just was not reliable.
So the shift has been moving to daily sessions instead of relying on weekends, along with keeping my evenings free. Once that is in place, everything starts compounding instead of resetting.
This session was fully solo.
I got out with good energy. AA was lower and I was able to get into sets more easily. I ended up doing solid volume, including a few multi set strings. At one point I hit a run of around six sets in a row.
One thing that is becoming very clear is that the groups are big and that is just the environment. It is not changing. You either adapt to it or you do not. At this point I am fully accepting that virtually every set is a group set when you are out solo.
Wisconsin girl
Opened a girl visiting from Wisconsin. Strong open, good eye contact, and she was immediately receptive. Good energy overall.
She was physical during the interaction (she actually initiated physicality first) and I reciprocated. I tried to move her toward the dance floor and get some level of isolation, but not fully.
Eventually hit the familiar line.
“I can’t leave my friend.”
Overall this was still a positive set even with hitting that objection.
Girl who opened me
Had a girl open me with a compliment and asked if I worked there.
She was touchy and engaged, but the interaction ended quickly because her friend pulled her away almost immediately.
Worth noting that multiple girls have now assumed I am security. A fitted black shirt, lifting, and keto are working effectively.
In this case I did not anchor the interaction fast enough before she got pulled.
General sets
Had a few standard interactions throughout the night. Opened strong, conversations were decent, and I got at least one number.
Still noticing a bit of awkwardness mid set at times, but overall the trend is positive. If I open strong and commit, the interaction usually goes somewhere. If I hesitate, I get ignored.
Another solid set
Had another good interaction where I went for the pull but ran into the same issue. She was with friends and did not want to leave. Ended up taking the number.
This is starting to become a clear pattern.
Highlight set
This was the best set of the night.
I opened a brunette who was with her friends. Got her engaged and moved her to the dance floor. We danced, got physical, I got into a makeout with her, and I was able to isolate her further by moving to the patio.
So at this point I had opened the group, built attraction, escalated physically, and moved her multiple times.
I tried to pull with
“I live 10 minutes up the road.” Offering to have some more drinks back at mine.
Got
“I can’t leave my friends.”
Same objection again. I took the number instead.
She texted me the next day saying she had just gone through a breakup and was not trying to have a bunch of casual sex right now.
It seems there was enough interest for movement, physicality, and follow up. Maybe I'll chalk this up to the interest level not being high enough.
Other notes
Still some hesitation with certain sets, especially walking up to seated groups like a table of three. That is still a sticking point, but it is improving.
One important moment from the night was going back in after hesitating on a set. That is something that did not used to happen. The daily exposure is working. It no longer feels like this huge burden.
Pattern and takeaways
The biggest pattern right now is obvious.
“I can’t leave my friends.” This has come up multiple times across different sets.
What this tells me:
Session summary
Total approaches was solid volume with multiple sets and a six set string.
All solo.
Energy was high and AA was lower than usual.
Takeaways
The plan is to keep running daily sessions and stacking reps. The system feels much more stable now and it is starting to show in the sets.
For a while my game consistency was pretty fragile. Everything depended on weekends lining up perfectly. I needed energy, time, and nothing getting in the way. As expected, life kept interfering. I would miss a weekend, then the next time I went out it felt like starting from zero again. AA came back, hesitation came back, and it just was not reliable.
So the shift has been moving to daily sessions instead of relying on weekends, along with keeping my evenings free. Once that is in place, everything starts compounding instead of resetting.
This session was fully solo.
I got out with good energy. AA was lower and I was able to get into sets more easily. I ended up doing solid volume, including a few multi set strings. At one point I hit a run of around six sets in a row.
One thing that is becoming very clear is that the groups are big and that is just the environment. It is not changing. You either adapt to it or you do not. At this point I am fully accepting that virtually every set is a group set when you are out solo.
Wisconsin girl
Opened a girl visiting from Wisconsin. Strong open, good eye contact, and she was immediately receptive. Good energy overall.
She was physical during the interaction (she actually initiated physicality first) and I reciprocated. I tried to move her toward the dance floor and get some level of isolation, but not fully.
Eventually hit the familiar line.
“I can’t leave my friend.”
Overall this was still a positive set even with hitting that objection.
Girl who opened me
Had a girl open me with a compliment and asked if I worked there.
She was touchy and engaged, but the interaction ended quickly because her friend pulled her away almost immediately.
Worth noting that multiple girls have now assumed I am security. A fitted black shirt, lifting, and keto are working effectively.
In this case I did not anchor the interaction fast enough before she got pulled.
General sets
Had a few standard interactions throughout the night. Opened strong, conversations were decent, and I got at least one number.
Still noticing a bit of awkwardness mid set at times, but overall the trend is positive. If I open strong and commit, the interaction usually goes somewhere. If I hesitate, I get ignored.
Another solid set
Had another good interaction where I went for the pull but ran into the same issue. She was with friends and did not want to leave. Ended up taking the number.
This is starting to become a clear pattern.
Highlight set
This was the best set of the night.
I opened a brunette who was with her friends. Got her engaged and moved her to the dance floor. We danced, got physical, I got into a makeout with her, and I was able to isolate her further by moving to the patio.
So at this point I had opened the group, built attraction, escalated physically, and moved her multiple times.
I tried to pull with
“I live 10 minutes up the road.” Offering to have some more drinks back at mine.
Got
“I can’t leave my friends.”
Same objection again. I took the number instead.
She texted me the next day saying she had just gone through a breakup and was not trying to have a bunch of casual sex right now.
It seems there was enough interest for movement, physicality, and follow up. Maybe I'll chalk this up to the interest level not being high enough.
Other notes
Still some hesitation with certain sets, especially walking up to seated groups like a table of three. That is still a sticking point, but it is improving.
One important moment from the night was going back in after hesitating on a set. That is something that did not used to happen. The daily exposure is working. It no longer feels like this huge burden.
Pattern and takeaways
The biggest pattern right now is obvious.
“I can’t leave my friends.” This has come up multiple times across different sets.
What this tells me:
- Attraction is generally there
- Opens are working
- Physical escalation is working
- Isolation is partially working
Session summary
Total approaches was solid volume with multiple sets and a six set string.
All solo.
Energy was high and AA was lower than usual.
Takeaways
- Weekend only game is fragile and unreliable and when life interferes you'll essentially be starting over. This was not as big an issue when I had a wing, but solo it is a huge problem. Daily sessions are the solution because they eliminate the single point of failure, and are already making a difference.
- When you are solo, every set is a group set. No point avoiding them.
- Strong opens and commitment are critical. Hesitation gets you ignored.
- Physicality and attraction are not the main issue right now. Logistics are.
- The “can’t leave my friends” objection is the current bottleneck.
- Going back in after hesitation is a major sign of progress against the AA.
The plan is to keep running daily sessions and stacking reps. The system feels much more stable now and it is starting to show in the sets.
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