So I'm walking down the halls at the school I go to for vocationals and this random chick at her locker, who I've never talked to or seen before said "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?" because I'm all dressed up and stuff for this thing we do in my program. I just say "Oh, every Thursday we have this dress up thing, it's for my class, ever heard of ITP?" she's like "Yeah, thanks" I'd say she was about an HB7 or something. I don't know really know if I should regard it as a field report since the girl actually talked to me.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FR? Don't know. Random chick talked to me.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Northern Lights
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Heres how the conversation should have went
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"Man....you are nosey 
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"socalrunner
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excuse my ignorance but what does fr mean? thanks in advance
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.