So I'm walking down the halls at the school I go to for vocationals and this random chick at her locker, who I've never talked to or seen before said "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?" because I'm all dressed up and stuff for this thing we do in my program. I just say "Oh, every Thursday we have this dress up thing, it's for my class, ever heard of ITP?" she's like "Yeah, thanks" I'd say she was about an HB7 or something. I don't know really know if I should regard it as a field report since the girl actually talked to me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FR? Don't know. Random chick talked to me.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Northern Lights
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Heres how the conversation should have went
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"Man....you are nosey 
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"socalrunner
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excuse my ignorance but what does fr mean? thanks in advance
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.