So I'm walking down the halls at the school I go to for vocationals and this random chick at her locker, who I've never talked to or seen before said "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?" because I'm all dressed up and stuff for this thing we do in my program. I just say "Oh, every Thursday we have this dress up thing, it's for my class, ever heard of ITP?" she's like "Yeah, thanks" I'd say she was about an HB7 or something. I don't know really know if I should regard it as a field report since the girl actually talked to me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
FR? Don't know. Random chick talked to me.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Don Juan
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Heres how the conversation should have went
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
Her: "Hey, why are you all dressed up and snazzy today?"
You: I'm just trying to look my best for you
then go from there
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
"Man....you are nosey 
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"
. Bet you're peeping out your curtains at home trying to see all whats going on down your street....infact I could see you as a peeping Tom. Oh God....you didn't see me dressing in my mums undies did you?!?!"socalrunner
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excuse my ignorance but what does fr mean? thanks in advance
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.