"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zerocelcius said:
And how the hell does he almost have more posts than me in one year... I have been on here for almost 4 years...WTF!!!

I am very leery of people with that many posts in so little time.
Easy, I post FR's, A LOT OF FR's, which isn't something I can say about anyone giving advice. If you look at my threads, they're mostly FR's with the occassional problem or rant.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ChrizZ said:
DON'T FEED THE TROLL!!!

I request ban for Elstud aka Viper aka Mr. Confidence and for everyone that keeps replying to his threads!
I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.
 

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I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.
Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.

This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
 

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ElStud said:
Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.

This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
You don't need proof to give good advice. Advice is only there for insurance, but there's no need for insurance because you've only been given good advice that you've been ignoring.

Then again you're a troll.
 

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ElStud said:
Sigh... it's getting to the point if that if the Keyboard Jockies of the board are just going to bombard my post with bad advice, I'm not even going to bother replying until someone who knows what they're talking about says something. And if you can compare this one, with the last thread, it's the SAME people who are giving bad advice and then arguing.

hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Real said:
hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
He's been known to be like this. My theory is that he's either a troll who thrives off of attention, or he was so socially isolated and inept growing up that he doesn't understand the full mechanics of how an interaction works, and is unable to appropriately respond to them because of a lack of experience. And due to his big ego, he's unwilling to take advice. I'm actually going for the first point. Honestly, no one can be this self centered, ignorant, stupid all at the same time. There are people like that, but I doubt I would have met one in the community.
 

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ElStud said:
I'm the troll, yet you have no FR's and somehow you're always here to reply immediately after the post. Good luck with that. Now, let me save you the time. Let me guess, predictibly, all the KBJ's, ChrisZ, Bbivid, Miba, HandyAndy, GWA(Well known KBJ), Real and others are all going to start saying "OMG! Viper is troll ban please". Meanwhile the rest of the board doesn't give a fvck, do you wonder why? They don't want nothing to do with this immature KBJ, "Let's accuse someone who's improving to be a troll" crap. Seriously though, I don't see anyone with any success EVER giving advice in these topics. And it's funny how most of the "No FR's, but we're going to act like we know the game" guys are the ones accusing me of being a troll.
You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important.
You're trying to pick up girls at lunch time? Well I have better things to do at lunch... like how about eat?

Troll or not: you'd be more respected if you simply posted "DLV" or "I am AFC" instead of pinning your problems on other people who aren't doing the wrong things.

I am AFC!! I'm not some PUA God... Jesus, why don't you study why people here are saying what they say to you and figure out for yourself what's wrong with you.
 

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You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important.


Read this over and over Viper, this is why YOU are infact the KBJ.
 

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He must be a troll. There's no way someone can have 879 posts on this forum and have an interaction as poor as that.
 

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superchill89 said:
alamar you're a loser yourself don't jump in.
you can go get a room with elstud then.
btw we need an echoproof forum, or maybe you love me since you talk about me so much...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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