"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
FR: Did an approach at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.ChrizZ said:DON'T FEED THE TROLL!!!
I request ban for Elstud aka Viper aka Mr. Confidence and for everyone that keeps replying to his threads!
Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.War Against Betaism said:I thought I was the only one that caught on he was a troll.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
You don't need proof to give good advice. Advice is only there for insurance, but there's no need for insurance because you've only been given good advice that you've been ignoring.ElStud said:Come on, you guys think mods are dumb don't you? Hah. Besides, if they somehow do believe your dumb BS, it's not really going to affect me because I'm still going to approach and I'm still going to make FR's, something FEW of you giving advice ever do. So in the end, it would be me getting banned and the KBJ's who got me banned being able to continue giving awful advice to newbies on the forum. The KBJ's are the ones that should be banned and you know who you are.
This forum is becoming rather sad, idiots and KBJ's get away with giving awful advice and then the guys who are doing sh1t and have PROOF of doing sh1t, get banned.
Then again you're a troll.
ElStud said:Sigh... it's getting to the point if that if the Keyboard Jockies of the board are just going to bombard my post with bad advice, I'm not even going to bother replying until someone who knows what they're talking about says something. And if you can compare this one, with the last thread, it's the SAME people who are giving bad advice and then arguing.
hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
He's been known to be like this. My theory is that he's either a troll who thrives off of attention, or he was so socially isolated and inept growing up that he doesn't understand the full mechanics of how an interaction works, and is unable to appropriately respond to them because of a lack of experience. And due to his big ego, he's unwilling to take advice. I'm actually going for the first point. Honestly, no one can be this self centered, ignorant, stupid all at the same time. There are people like that, but I doubt I would have met one in the community.Real said:hey u ****ing punk, i gave u some advice earlier in this thread, why the **** didnt you read it and take it in???
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
You're a loser... We all could post stupid FRs every day because we all talk to people every day, but we don't consider simple conversations as that important.ElStud said:I'm the troll, yet you have no FR's and somehow you're always here to reply immediately after the post. Good luck with that. Now, let me save you the time. Let me guess, predictibly, all the KBJ's, ChrisZ, Bbivid, Miba, HandyAndy, GWA(Well known KBJ), Real and others are all going to start saying "OMG! Viper is troll ban please". Meanwhile the rest of the board doesn't give a fvck, do you wonder why? They don't want nothing to do with this immature KBJ, "Let's accuse someone who's improving to be a troll" crap. Seriously though, I don't see anyone with any success EVER giving advice in these topics. And it's funny how most of the "No FR's, but we're going to act like we know the game" guys are the ones accusing me of being a troll.
You're trying to pick up girls at lunch time? Well I have better things to do at lunch... like how about eat?
Troll or not: you'd be more respected if you simply posted "DLV" or "I am AFC" instead of pinning your problems on other people who aren't doing the wrong things.
I am AFC!! I'm not some PUA God... Jesus, why don't you study why people here are saying what they say to you and figure out for yourself what's wrong with you.
Read this over and over Viper, this is why YOU are infact the KBJ.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you can go get a room with elstud then.superchill89 said:alamar you're a loser yourself don't jump in.
btw we need an echoproof forum, or maybe you love me since you talk about me so much...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.